I know how it is. Especially in the current Presidential campaign season, you hear things
coming out of your TV that make you just want to throw a shoe at it. Why do we get so
riled up over other people's opinions, especially when they're not in alignment with our
own?
Our emotions are based on what we think and how our thoughts make us feel. And
remember, our human brain, which we all have in common, enables us to think, but our
mind is its output, if you will--separate from the brain itself. How we perceive what we
see, hear, and experience helps us to formulate our individual opinions.
With a world population that now tilts north of 7 billion, there are countless philosophies,
religions, political opinions, and special interest groups among us. Then we can get into
cultures, nationalities, and of course the obvious visual physical variations that we
identify with our thinking and emotions. The speed at which we communicate nowadays
is also at play. Social media, twenty-four-hour news cycles, live tweeting, and other
rapid fire forms of dialogue have made us realize that "others" and "their" mindsets are
actually in close proximity to ourselves--no longer half a globe away. Long held
thoughts and opinions by one group or other are now more exposed. The hard fact is that
others hold just as tenaciously to their time honored ideals. Looking at this from an
entropy standpoint: a sparsely populated planet of hundreds of thousands of years ago
with unorganized ways and methods (disorder), gave rise to a large populations, social
group thinking, and territorial demarcation (order), which are now showing signs of
rupturing at their seams due to ever increasing proximity and cultural crossing over of
ideals and opinions (disorder).
But since we now realize that the human brain is our true common denominator, perhaps
it is time that we place a sharper focus on a more humane quality when it comes to
assessing the opinions of others. Why should we consider this? Simply because we can.
Instead of allowing ourselves to get caught up in reactionary, dismissive judgment, even
if we don't understand the other person's viewpoint, we can first give him or her respect
and value for showing up with a human brain. Thoughts, feelings, morals, and opinions,
no matter how long they have been with us, are mutable. Even if formed through actual
personal experience, we can change what we think or how we view others without
needing to have the equal weight of a different experience to counterbalance the
previously held mindset. We can evolve in our thinking and alter our emotions in an
instant. We can see that over time, entropy will alter whatever truths we hold onto so
dearly no matter what. But our humane brain can also be the agent of change when we
redirect our thinking, using it as the energy catalyst, providing our emotions a most likely
well needed rest from all the upheaval when we hear another human airing his or her
thoughts.
-Paula